Category Archives for The Red Flags of Narcissism

5 Things To Never Do If You’re Dealing With A Narcissist

While some love can be blind, other love can be downright toxic and debilitating. As an adult, it is your responsibility to secure your well-being. If you’re dealing with a narcissist, the decisions

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9 Secret Signs of Narcissism You Can’t Miss Once You Notice Them

Sometimes the signs of narcissism aren’t so obvious and narcissists fly under our radar. Not every narcissist is a puffed-up gym rat or a Mean Girl like Regina George. If they were, we could see

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Being Angry Over Abuse Doesn’t Make You a Narcissist: It’s Righteous Anger

It’s a situation every victim of narcissistic abuse finds themselves in. After yet another argument, you ask yourself, “am I really being irrational? Maybe I’m the narcissist.” You’re understanding,

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These 7 Traits Make You Vulnerable to Narcissistic Manipulation

Some people find themselves in a relationship with a narcissist, claw their way out, and do their best to write-off or avoid other narcissists for the rest of their lives. Others feel they are simply magnets

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Stop Focusing On Narcissist Types and Focus On These Red Flags

A simple Google search for types of narcissist has over 32 million results. These list-based articles have altruistic intentions, as most authors seek to politely educate unsuspecting victims of the narcissist’s

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Loss of Identity: Examples of Perspecticide from Narcissistic Abuse

Loss of identity is unavoidable after being in an emotionally abusive and manipulative relationship. I often hear people compare living with a narcissistic partner to living in a cult – but with even

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How the Narcissist Hurts You Using Cognitive Empathy

What if I told you that empathy could cause horrible – even unspeakable – physical and emotional pain? “But Kim, isn’t empathy the glue that holds relationships together and creates a positive

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Why the Narcissist Seems to Hate You, But Won’t Let You Go

Being the target of narcissistic hatred is the most confusing experience you’ll have in your life.  It’s wrought with ironies, opposites, and sleight of hand.  Just when you think you’ve come out

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On a Dating Site? One of the Top Ways to Avoid Users Online

One question I see floating around on the internet is, “I am on ABC dating site and this guy or gal I just connected with is asking for a full-length body shot.  What should I do?  I don’t want to

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