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Being betrayed by your Narcissistic lover is painful…but there’s a reason they chose you over everyone else. Your light shined brighter…

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Cheri says November 16, 2013

Still trying to survive. Thanks for posting this video.

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    Kim Saeed says November 16, 2013

    I don’t know your circumstances, but it’s important to remember that you are beautiful, talented, and worthy. The manner in which we are treated by the Narcissist has nothing to do with us, but what they feel about themselves. They try to project their darkness onto us. Being caring individuals, we do tend to take on the blame, but the reality is that it’s they who are at fault…and were at fault from day one.

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      Cheri says November 16, 2013

      I do know and thank you. Knowing doesn’t always help though. I have a few times a year where it really just gets me. It doesn’t help that my step-father is also one of these type people and he and I share a home. Although our relationship is that of father/daughter he is very much a narcissist and it’s just the two of us in this home so unfortunately I have to stumble through.

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        Kim Saeed says November 16, 2013

        I can relate. I don’t know that we ever truly “get over” the pain associated with a relationship with these people. All we can really do is endure it in the best way we can. I’m sorry you are still in the midst of a toxic person. I hope you remember to take care of yourself to compensate for some of it…

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