This seems to be an area of concern on the LMR stats page, so I thought I’d share my insights. This list is by no means exhaustive, but it should give one a general idea of how to live with this sort of arrangement. Below, I offer the bare basics of living with a narcissistic, cheating husband:
I could go on, but this should give you an idea of how to live with a cheating, Narcissistic husband. I’ve put things into perspective here in hopes that I can help you overcome abuse amnesia and magical thinking.
If your spouse engages in any of the above behaviors, you should seriously consider going No Contact and severing the relationship, especially if you have children. Otherwise, you’ll need to resign yourself to the fact that you’ll never really live again, and if you do have children that their chances of becoming co-dependent or Narcissistic are greatly elevated.