Category Archives for "Discovering Your Partner is a Narcissist"

Nov 11

The Narcissist’s Return Cycle

By Kim Saeed | Contemplating No Contact , Discovering Your Partner is a Narcissist , Initiating No Contact , Maintaining No Contact

Why would a Narcissist leave, only to later express a desire to return to the relationship? What would cause the Narcissist to hurt and betray you deeply, only for them to come back, seemingly having had a change of heart? Why do they adamantly try to convince you to give them another chance, only to revert […]

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Oct 30

The Narcissists’ Playbook

By Kim Saeed | Contemplating No Contact , Discovering Your Partner is a Narcissist , Initiating No Contact , Maintaining No Contact

by Ven Baxter One of the first steps out of Narcissistic abuse is the realization that one is, in fact, dealing with a Narcissist.  I’m going to generalize a lot here (quite legitimately, I believe), but first, here’s my definition of a Narcissist: a person who deceives others in order to take, deplete, and consume […]

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Oct 13

Things Narcissists Don’t Want You to Know

By Kim Saeed | Contemplating No Contact , Discovering Your Partner is a Narcissist , Narcissistic Behaviors

Are you tired of feeling like you’ve been outsmarted by the narcissist?  Do you experience unhealthy levels of self-loathing each time they pull the wool over your eyes? There are things narcissists don’t want you to know and they will do anything to keep you from finding out! Narcissists rarely ever admit to it, but […]

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Jul 18

7 Sneaky Things Narcissists Say to Get You Back

By Kim Saeed | Contemplating No Contact , Discovering Your Partner is a Narcissist , Initiating No Contact , Maintaining No Contact , Narcissistic Behaviors , The Red Flags of Narcissism

Narcissists rarely ever admit to it, but all of your worst fears regarding your relationship are playing out just underneath the radar of your awareness. You know that ever-present, vague sense of dread you have in the pit of your stomach, wondering if they’re lying or telling the truth?  That’s your intuition, which can cause […]

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Jul 09

The True Tragedy of the End of Love Bombing

By Kim Saeed | Contemplating No Contact , Discovering Your Partner is a Narcissist , Initiating No Contact , Maintaining No Contact

If you’ve endured the nightmare of narcissistic abuse,  you’d probably agree that the love-bombing (idealization) phase carried out by the narcissist is what kept you entangled in the toxic relationship.  After all, love is the most sought-after human need.  So, when you received an overwhelming amount of love and acceptance, it’s very hard to analyze the reasons ‘why’ for […]

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Apr 26

Have You Been a Victim of Emotional Vampirism?

By Kim Saeed | Empaths and Sensitives , Energy Healing , Narcissism , Surviving Narcissistic Abuse

Written by Ven Baxter Some of the greatest teachers and healers in history have famously been murdered–presumably by “negative” people. Jesus and Socrates both come to mind. Presumably, these great teachers and healers did not heal these negative people, despite being close enough to them to be killed by them. These negative people who would […]

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Apr 01

An Open Letter to Friends and Family of Narcissistic Abuse Victims

By Kim Saeed | Break-Ups , Narcissism , Surviving Narcissistic Abuse , The Red Flags of Narcissism

Ven Baxter If you’ve never been in a close relationship with a Narcissistic partner, it may not be easy to imagine. It might be impossible. It may not be easy for a survivor of Narcissistic abuse to relate his or her experiences to others, either. Indeed, both of these may be impossible. However, even if you’ve […]

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