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Do Narcissists Suck at Tickling?

by Ven Baxter Tickling requires empathy. It’s a psychological game (in a positive sense). One can’t tickle oneself; tickling requires a partner and, like most human interactions, when done the “right”

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5 Signs of Toxic Parents and Healing the Damage They Caused

The term “toxic parent” was invented to describe parents whose own negative behaviors inflict devastating emotional damage which wrecks their children’s sense of self. Toxic parents are those

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7 Biases That Hinder Your Recovery from Narcissistic Abuse

It’s no secret that being in a relationship with a character disturbed individual affects one’s ability to think clearly and rationally. When you’re dealing with gaslighting, blame-shifting, and

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8 Ways Narcissists Can Alter Your Perception of Reality

Being in a close relationship with a narcissistic can be more than just hurtful – it can be dangerous. If you find yourself in constant doubt, self-blame, and confusion, you may just be the victim of

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When the Narcissist Wants to Take a Break

If you’re involved with someone whom you suspect is a narcissist, you’ve probably heard the “I think we need to take a break” spiel.  It’s supposed to be just “temporary” … to sort

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Relationship Deal Breakers: Know When to Walk Away

Starting a new relationship is incredibly exciting. But on the journey to finding the ideal partner, many people end up in abusive relationships. What’s worse – some may end up staying in these abusive

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Love Bombing is the Gateway Drug to Love Addiction

If you’ve ever been in love with a narcissist, you’re likely aware of how good they are at manipulating your relationship. One of their tools of manipulation is something called love bombing, which

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‘Narcissists are Fragile Beings’ and Other Fallacies

Over the past few years, the internet has exploded with articles and books about narcissism.  In fact, I often wonder if the internet has turned us into a bunch of narcissism junkies.   It starts out

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5 Post-Discard Mistakes to Avoid Like the Plague

Whether it’s the first time you’ve been discarded – or you go through the discard and hoover cycle like the earth orbiting the sun – one thing’s for sure…  It sucks. When I was

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Are You Trauma-Bonded or Addicted to Toxic Love?

You know the cycle: things are bad and they never seem to get better. The fights are getting worse, the insults are getting deeper and more personal, and the manipulation is more pronounced. You feel powerless

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