Category Archives for "Surviving Narcissistic Abuse"

Oct 15

There are far more for you than against you

By Kim Saeed | Contemplating No Contact , Initiating No Contact , Living Joyfully after No Contact , Maintaining No Contact , Moving on after No Contact , Surviving Narcissistic Abuse

~by Lolisha GLT Chaney There are far more for you, than against you. You are far from being alone. There are strangers strategically placed in your path that want to see you heal your life. There are people you haven’t even met yet, that want to help you succeed.  You must believe in these unseen supporters so […]

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Oct 08

The Danger of Negative Expectations in Your Recovery from Narcissistic Abuse

By Kim Saeed | Energy Healing , Maintaining No Contact , Moving on after No Contact , Surviving Narcissistic Abuse

Many of us have heard of the placebo effect, which asserts that the subconscious mind is so powerful, your thoughts have the ability to manifest healing. There have been numerous studies published proving the amazing power of your mind in recovery. In one such study designed to determine if the beneficial effects still exist when […]

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Sep 21

How Obsessively Researching Narcissism is Ruining Your Life

By Kim Saeed | Initiating No Contact , Maintaining No Contact , Moving on after No Contact , Surviving Narcissistic Abuse

Have you left a toxic relationship, only to continue researching narcissism like a journalist working for CNN? Have you spent hours, months – or worse, years – trying to peer inside the mind of the narcissist to find out exactly what makes them tick? Are your relationships strained because you talk about your toxic Ex […]

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Sep 12

5 Brutal Ways New Abuse Survivors Torture Themselves

By Kim Saeed | Maintaining No Contact , Moving on after No Contact , Surviving Narcissistic Abuse

Legions of people who’ve endured narcissistic abuse hold the mistaken belief that choosing to leave a toxic relationship is the hardest thing they will ever do in their lives. In fact, I once believed the same thing.  But, the truth is…it’s what comes after that’s really the hardest.  The self-blame, the cognitive dissonance, the tendency […]

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Aug 04

The Hidden Teachings of Narcissistic Abuse

By Kim Saeed | Living Joyfully after No Contact , Moving on after No Contact , Surviving Narcissistic Abuse

by Ven Baxter~ What most powerfully grabs our attention in our outer experience is what most relates to our inner search (for healing, growth, wisdom, and so on)–that is, our “spiritual path.”  Thus, we are most attracted to what we perceive in the “outer” world as versions (or visions) of ourselves. Versions of ourselves in […]

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Jun 28

3 Dating Sites to Avoid That are Crawling with Narcissists

By Kim Saeed | Dating After Narcissistic Abuse , Moving on after No Contact , Surviving Narcissistic Abuse

If you’re feeling lonely and yearn for someone to fill a space in your heart, creating an online dating profile might seem like the logical thing to do.  With the billions of people on dating sites world-wide , there must be a person out there who is perfect for you, right? Imagine meeting someone for the first […]

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Jun 25

How to Keep Your Job in the Midst of Narcissistic Abuse

By Kim Saeed | Contemplating No Contact , Initiating No Contact , Surviving Narcissistic Abuse

Do you hear that? It’s the sound of distant sobbing.  Heart-wrenching, soulful sobbing that comes with the loss of everything one has toiled for over the course of years, maybe decades.  What if it that person sobbing were you, lamenting your misfortune after losing your job due to narcissistic abuse? Not only your job, but […]

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Apr 26

Have You Been a Victim of Emotional Vampirism?

By Kim Saeed | Empaths and Sensitives , Energy Healing , Narcissism , Surviving Narcissistic Abuse

Written by Ven Baxter Some of the greatest teachers and healers in history have famously been murdered–presumably by “negative” people. Jesus and Socrates both come to mind. Presumably, these great teachers and healers did not heal these negative people, despite being close enough to them to be killed by them. These negative people who would […]

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Apr 01

An Open Letter to Friends and Family of Narcissistic Abuse Victims

By Kim Saeed | Break-Ups , Narcissism , Surviving Narcissistic Abuse , The Red Flags of Narcissism

Ven Baxter If you’ve never been in a close relationship with a Narcissistic partner, it may not be easy to imagine. It might be impossible. It may not be easy for a survivor of Narcissistic abuse to relate his or her experiences to others, either. Indeed, both of these may be impossible. However, even if you’ve […]

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