Tag Archives for " Learned Helplessness "

Dec 12

When the Narcissist Does What They Said They Wouldn’t Do…Again

By Kim Saeed | Contemplating No Contact , Initiating No Contact , Maintaining No Contact

Does this sound familiar? You recently settled into a vague sense of security after the narcissist swore on their mother’s grave that they wouldn’t (insert relationship crime) again, yet you discovered they broke their sacred promise. Consequently, you not only loathe the narcissist, you loathe yourself for falling for their lies once more.  You feel […]

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Feb 23

Forgiving the Narcissist vs. Abuse Amnesia

By Kim Saeed | Contemplating No Contact , Narcissistic Behaviors , Recovery from Co-Dependency , Surviving Narcissistic Abuse

Forgiveness.  It’s all over the media.  If we want to live a stress-free life, clear our energy channels, and obtain forgiveness from our Creator, we must learn to forgive.  In the words of the Buddha, “Holding on to anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; you […]

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