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Am I in an Abusive Relationship?

  No relationship is perfect.  Conflict is a natural part of any relationship, whether romantic or otherwise.  Even the best of lovers will have moments of misunderstanding, frustration, and confusion. 

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Feel Like You Were Brainwashed by the Narcissist?

  You were.  Through manipulative psychological techniques that effectively condition your subconscious mind. Narcissists use subtle clues and suggestions to guide you towards things that are not

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Why is No Contact So Hard?

Everyone who has been involved with a Narcissist experiences this contradiction of logic.  Severing the relationship with a disordered personality should be a no-brainer, right?  Yet it seems no matter

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Looming Over Me: Control Games

~by Verity~ You stand, cup of coffee in hand, towering over me, refusing to sit down, too close, your face set in the familiar jaw-jutting meanness. I try to keep calm – although you are bigger and

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Retribution Through Desecration of Your Spirit is not Your Destiny

  I’ve read countless testimonies of narcissistic abuse victims indicating their belief that their situation is retribution for past sins.  This false belief can occur during any and all stages

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Narcissistic Ex Loves New Partner More

One of the biggest struggles when detaching from an abusive relationship with a Narcissist is the perception that he or she loves their new partner more.  In fact, it enhances feelings of low self-esteem

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Why do I Feel so Attached to my Narcissistic Ex?

  This is a common question as it relates to how one perceives their attachment to the Narcissist in their life.  In the beginning, it seemed they’d finally met their soul-mate.  The Narcissist

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Don’t Sell Yourself Short

I bargained with Life for a penny, And Life would pay no more, However I begged at evening When I counted my scanty store; For Life is a just employer, He gives you what you ask, But once you have

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Forgiving the Narcissist – Is Your Ego the Culprit?

  There are several factors at play when choosing to remain in a toxic relationship.  But did you know your ego may be the most prevalent? In fact, your ego is just as convincing as the Narcissist

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